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My little getaway...

Since Casey got to take Ty to the Jazz game and Ash to Disney on Ice, I figured I was due for a little fun myself...A weekend retreat! Imagine enjoying a relaxing hobby, say oh, I don't know.... scrapbooking. Tables set up so you can leave the mess out the entire time without kids "helping out" or having to clean-up after getting all of the above said junk set up after only accomplishing one or two layouts. Let's add in 12 other fun girls, and big comfortable beds whenever you decide to hit the hay all in the beautiful Heber Valley. Sounds great, right? It get's better...
Meet Marcie, your personal chef, concierge and cleaning lady! Waking up to a breakfast that you didn't have to think up, buy groceries for, bake and then clean up. And you get 3 great meals that appear when a little bell rings to let you know that your next meal is waiting for you, along with plenty of snacks, drinks, dessert. You name it, she thought of it. She rocked. Everything was WONDERFUL!

A HUGE thanks to my sister, Liz, for inviting me. I love you and especially loved getting to spend time with YOU. I was one pampered girl, got a lot of creative juices flowing and even got some scrapbooking done to boot! Who's in next time?

And on a related note...

What could be better as a kid than having your dad all to yourselves for a whole weekend? How about adding in dad also doing the grocery shopping. Is this a weekend of eating in heaven for a kid or what?

Pizza? Check

Pringles? Check

Swedish Fish? Check

Hostess cupcakes? Check

Movies? Check

Oh, and I guess we'd better throw in milk and yogurt for good measure.

What a fun dad! Probably a good thing we don't eat like this every day though!

Daddy/Daughter Date

Case & Ash had a fun little date last week. Ash reported that dad opened every door for her and even let her sit up front by him--she felt so big and special. The biggest decision of the night for Ash was where to eat--oh the debating between some of her favorites...Panda Express, Chuck-a-Rama, Sizz...How is a girl to chose? The steak won out and Sizzler was the destination for a night of fine dining;).
Casey kept the next part of the date a surprise, and boy was she ever! They ended up at the Disney Princesses on Ice and can we say, she loved it?!? She's loved dressing up since she was two, so it was great to see that 4 years later she still could enjoy it (and I'm so relieved that she can still be excited about it and doesn't think she's too old for it!). She called me on the way home because she couldn't wait to tell me all about it. I LOVE this age, and even more, I LOVE this girl and her daddy.

Dedicated to Phil, the Hamster 2007-2008

So, this was a new situation as a mother that I had last week...

Ty was playing with one of his closest buddies who happens to also be my cousin last week. They get along so well and just love any minute they can spend together--love these boys!

But this playdate took a tragic turn! They happened to be at another cousins house and decided to go into 11-year old Spencer's room to play with his toys and his hamster, Phil. Shall I preface this right now with the fact that Spencer ADORES this hamster? As in, he insisted on holding his beloved pet in the family Christmas Card photo because he loves it so much, not to mention that he happens to be one tender, sweet 11-year old boy!

Well, somehow the little boys got Phil caught between two objects and couldn't figure out how to get him out on their own. My little cousin ran up to get his mom, but it was too late, and Phil had passed on... Oh Dear!

We feel SOOOO bad for poor Spencer! How do you make restitution for something like that? And what are we going to do if the law passes that makes cruelty to animals more than a misdemeanor?!? Okay, this is not an appropriate time for humor...

Well, we made a treat and Tyler hand wrote a letter:

We hope the relationship will be preserved!

Remember When

Thought this would be fun to meander down memory lane...

20 Years Ago: 10 Whopping years old. I had glasses, feathered bangs, a frizzy perm and would wear awesome combinations like a long-sleeved white button down shirt, florescent geo-print clam-diggers, huarache sandals with two co-ordinating socks and one side of my hair up with a butterfly claw. Either that or Units. WOW. That's quite a visual! Amazingly, I still had a healthy dose of self esteem and plenty of friends! I loved elementary school. My teacher was Mrs. Moody. One of my best friends was hit by a car and survived after a series of what I consider miracles. I loved soccer, swimming and playing with my friends.

10 Years Ago: I had gotten back from Jerusalem, living with fun roommates down at BYU--one of my favorites being my older sister, writing to a missionary pretty regularly and dating. Happened to see a really cute guy give up his chair during Sunday School so that some girls that had come in late would have a seat, and jokingly said "DIBS!" to my friend sitting next to me. A couple of weeks later, actually got to have a conversation with this cute guy at a party and hit it right off. We ended up spending a majority of our free time with each other from that point on. It didn't matter what we were doing, we just couldn't get enough of each other! Things were getting a little more serious by the time the missionary got home and I dated both at the same time for a little over a month (which seriously STUNK--I wouldn't ever wish this situation on ANYONE!) and just felt like I really needed to see where things lead with Casey. Well, obviously things lead down a great path and we both felt that we'd found just what we'd been looking for, so we got engaged Oct 14th, planned our wedding and were married Dec 29th!!! Love this guy!!!

5 Years Ago: We were living in Charlottesville, VA--what we sometimes dubs as our "Camelot" years. Casey was in the middle of med school, Ash was our world and we had the dearest friends and neighbors that became our family away from family. Ty joined our family and we couldn't have been more excited! We learned to appreciate the great families we came from as we were away, but couldn't have imagined how our experiences at UVa would strengthen our own little family. We were also building debt up to our eyeballs:)

3 Years Ago: Casey graduated and we were offered a spot for residency at the University of Utah Internal Medicine program. We were thrilled that our kiddos would actually get to be near grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins! We celebrated by heading down to Florida and enjoying Disney World with extended family. We lived in my aunt & uncles home while they served as mission presidents, and grew to love so many in their neighborhood. Intern year for Casey was a BEAR--I feel like we didn't always handle it as gracefully as I'd have liked, but we survived it all the same!! This was a very significant year for us as well because we lost Casey's mom, Trish and my grandmother quite unexpectedly. These two women had such tangible impacts on us, and still continue to, to this day.

1 Year Ago: We were house hunting and found our home (almost exactly a year ago, in fact!) and couldn't be happier with our home, neighborhood and community. Ash was in kindergarten, Ty was finally rounding the corner of a rough toddler stretch (seriously, I lost count of how many times I felt that I was failing this kid as his mother! Thankfully, he's such a sweet boy now;) and Tink was our happy, content baby. We moved in at the end of summer.

So Far This Year: We've settled into the groove of being a family of 5 just in time to prepare to welcome a new little girl in 2 months! Casey is almost done with residency, I'm almost done with being prego, Ash is almost done with baby teeth, Ty is loving preschool and Ali is almost done with wandering the halls at church and being in nursery!

Yesterday: Finished "Austenland", got Ash off to school, went to check on my poor mom who has kidney stones and got some bonus visits with Liz and her kids, my aunt Laurie and my Dad while I was there, picked up Ash from school and went to the park with the Pelo's on a really nice afternoon. Got materials to sew costumes for Road Show from the awesome director, Becky (And YES, apparently this stake still does Road Show's, and no, this is not in my comments from 20 years ago, honest!) Made dinner. Had a great visit from Casey's sister, Robyn where we got to talk about our pregnancy questions and concerns! Got the kiddos in bed just in time for Casey to come home to kiss them good-night. Tried to convince Casey that we REALLY need a vacation;) Got bummed when he was talking about the fact that we need to make sure we're being responsible and putting the money in things like our kids educational funds, our retirement, saving for the backyard improvements and replacing his 13 year old car. Went upstairs and started reading The Ensign. Really enjoyed the articles and felt guilty for acting like a baby:) Totally fell asleep at 9:00. How embarassing...

Today: A nice, leisurly Saturday. Had some fun kids in the neighborhood over for much of the day to play, took all three kids to the grocery store, made dinner. Casey got home around 6 and we watched "Barbie Mariposa". Now this one was a real winner! Put the kids to bed, Casey asked me where I'd like to go on a trip (Awww, what a nice guy, even when I was a little pouty!) watched the Jazz game while I worked on Road Show costumes and Activity Day crafts.

My fingers are tired, and I commend anyone that even made it this far!! Try it out for yourself--it's nice to remember fun things from your past that you'd forgotten about!

Quick Ty-isms

Ty & Casey having a conversation:

"Ty-guy, what did you have for lunch?"

"Umm..I don't know. I think you'll have to ask the girl you married."

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Ty & Casey went to a Jazz game last night. As they passed the Temple, Ty said:

"Is that Disneyland?"

"Nope, that's the temple."

"Oh, so is it the Disneyland temple?"

Pigs are flying...

It came out of my husbands mouth the other day...

"If I had to do it over again, I would have gotten a mini-van."

I am shocked! This from a guy who swore he would NEVER get a minivan. We were just looking at SUV's with 3 rows, and I got him to actually sit in an Odessey 3 years ago. Now that was a feat in itself, so I felt a small sense of victory just to get him to think outside of his "comfort zone". We actually really wanted a Pilot, but at the time, they had just come into the market and we could only buy new and didn't quite have the funds for that! So, we've been just fine with the Explorer.

But I just had to write it down so that my loving husband won't forget that these words were uttered when we get the shopping bug again. Any shout-outs from the mini-mom's out there?!?

Activity Days

So, really, I have a fun calling. I get to spend every other Wednesday afternoon with a group of 8-11 year old girls doing various things like taking cookies to widows, going and doing a library tour, making scripture bags and just being amazed by all the excitement and energy that 12 elementary girls can possess! And I work with two ladies that are really quite honestly, some of the most amazing women & personal heroes of mine.

Yesterday we had a discussion about the sacrament and then taught the girls how to make homemade bread. It was a really great activity--all spread out around the counter, kneading dough and remembering exactly what we are covenanting to do when we take the sacrament each Sunday. We made some loaves to be used for the sacrament on Sunday and each girl got to take home a small loaf to share with their families.

So, if you visit the CR 4th ward this week, I'm sure you'll see some girls inspecting the trays for their contribution to the meeting! I really love these girls!

Spiderwick, Sharks and Earthquakes, Oh My!

Ash has just recently gotten really into reading the Spiderwick Chronicles. Isn't she too young for this? The librarian at her school suggested it to her and she devoured the first book in one night, insisting that it wasn't scary. I've seen the commercials for the new movie and she is BEGGING to see it. Well, I'M too scared to see it. So, a date with dad was in order. Can we say obsessed?!?

Tyler has also been obsessed lately with sharks and earthquakes. He read some books from the library about them and every question lately is "So, when is an earthquake going to come anyway?" or "Did you know that sharks eat surfers because they look like they are seals, not because they want to eat us?" I'll be sure to store that one away in the old brain, considering we live in a land-locked state! I guess I forget that there is something so intriguing about the unknown, mysterious and sometimes a little bit scary things in life. I constantly struggle between overprotecting and allowing my kids to explore things in all facets of life. I guess this is a tight-rope walk that all mothers walk, finding the fine line that they want to venture on.

Tink is teetering everyday on that fine little line--the curiosity of a 17-month old! She's fascinated with the dishwasher, anything with buttons, with STANDING on every chair, rather than sitting, and just wants to be in the middle of everything! Oh boy...

Are you sad you won't have a brother?

Ash was talking with Ty about how we're having another sister join the family. She was feeling bad for Ty, since he'd be the only boy and asked, "Are you sad you won't have a brother?"

Ty, lifting his arms up and shrugging replied matter-of-factly, "Well, Jesus is our brother. So I already have a brother!"

Of Course!

I {heart} Valentine's Day

Thanks to some savy ideas that I was able to lift, Valentine's Day was very sweet! We had the usual heart pancakes (which hallelujiah! is a treat for the kids. Could you ask for an easier breakfast?!?) I got to volunteer at Ash's class party, which was a blast. First graders are just such a fun age group! After school we played Valentine's bingo, that a sweet friend shared the template to so I taught myself how to digitally scrap! Thanks to her generosity, it turned out great. I just may be hooked!

Dinner, a video and smoothies topped off the night! I made some coupon books for Casey as well as the kids and they got some new Sunday clothes. I was surprised how excited they were about the gifts--maybe because they weren't really expecting it, like Christmas or a Birthday. Ty has come upstairs wanting to redeem a coupon every day we've been home. Today the request is Chuck E Cheese. We'll see if it can work!

A few days ago I asked Casey if there was anything he wanted, and he couldn't think of anything. So, I got him something very unromantic that he had mentioned that he needed a couple of weeks ago--and he still loves me despite the boring gift! He got me something sentimental from when we were dating and some beautiful flowers and a dinner date for later this week. A simple, sweet Valentine's Day with people I love the most. How lucky...

St George photos!

Much needed break...

The kiddos & I got back from a terrific weekend in St George. Swimming, shopping, hiking and sand dunes were some of the highlights. We even lucked out with playing with some of my cousins while down there, whom my kids ADORE!! I snuck away for a few hours to see a few of the mansions in the Parade of Homes down there. Pretty amazing! We also discovered Ty's new love of Uno, and pretty much any board game for that matter. Ash loved the pool, collecting rocks and being Olivia's shadow and Ali loved the sand dunes. We sure missed our hard-working dad, though!

Just the recharge we were looking for...Now I can face the next storm!!!!

That's it. We're headed to St. George and there's no stopping us.

As is often the case, when I should finish the packing, I got sucked into the blogging world and decided to change my template again. I'm trying to teach myself how to do more digital stuff, so forgive all the busy-ness and multiple-personalities that my blog has been experiencing. It's sure fun though! Maybe next time I'll actually sit down and write what's actually HAPPENING in our family's life! Ha ha! Happy weekend everyone!

Wow, what a day. I apologize for the travel-log, but this is a day I don't want to forget, and more importantly feelings I don't want to fade.

This morning I had the news on to see what the weather was going to be like and the reporter was talking about President Hinckley's viewing. Ash told me that she wanted to go and I'm embarrassed to say that I was thinking of a million other things that we needed to do today and mulled it around my head throughout much of the morning. Have I mentioned before how much I learn from my kids--will I ever learn this lesson?!?

So, I decided that I was just going to make it happen. The 3 kids and I went down to the conference center and the spirit was so very sweet. I realized that because they are still under 8 it was their first time being IN the conference center and so we got to explore a little bit. Music was playing in the background and there was such a reverence and peace there today.

We've been having an ongoing dialogue, particularly with Ty, about how we leave our bodies behind for a time when we die and our spirits go to heaven & we are reunited with loved ones, Jesus and Heavenly Father. At one particular point, we were waiting to go up the escalator and Ty asked why we had stopped. I told him that we were going up to see President Hinckley. He got this big, wide-eyed look and asked sincerely, "Is Jesus up there too?" I think he thought we were on our way up to heaven ourselves!

The kids were very reverent and it was very uplifting to be there. We had a really great discussion about how the kids felt in there, how THAT was indeed the spirit and to remember how it feels and they were saying some very sweet things about some very spiritual matters. I was so very grateful that we had the oportunity to experience this as a family.

As if that weren't enough, I was lucky enough to go to a fireside tonight where the speakers were two of my personal favorite women and examples--Wendy Nelson and Sheri Dew. My bucket is filled to overflowing tonight with gratitude and reminders of how to improve, as we truly do not know the scope and influence we as mothers and latter-day saint women have. It really is days like this that I wonder why I let myself live in mediocrity, that motivate me to work harder and to say to the world--put up your dukes and bring it on! ha ha

Be Grateful

At President Hinckley's passing, I've been reflecting on the lasting impact that he's made. I realize that he's made an indelible imprint on society as a whole through his messages and example of kindness, acceptance and inclusiveness; as well as for the Latter-Day Saints from accessibility of temples, the Conference Center, programs like the Perpetual Education Fund and great messages from the "6 Be's", "The Living Christ", and The Family Proclamation amongst a miriad of other significant accomplishments as our prophet.

I know it's a selfish slant, but mostly I've reflected on how President Hinckley has deeply affected me and my life. His words of encouragement, to stand a little taller and be a little better have always been delivered with such a strong spirit that I can't help but WANT to try to live my life more in accordance with the Savior's teachings.

Watching how he & his wife lived their lives--hard-working, always positive with a sense of humor, seeking to live by the spirit, being a good neighbor, serving all those around them, a willingness to be an avid learner--have taught me more of how to pattern my life than any amount of sermons preached over the pulpit. His passing reminds me to recommit to these values and way of life, as this is the best way I can personally honor him.

Four & a HALF and Six & a HALF, officially!

Remember what a big deal it was to distinguish your age as "x & a HALF", emphasis always placed on the half, because you've made it way beyond just your numerical age? We embrace that milestone in our family and celebrated both Ty & Ash's half birthdays this past week. Ty chose half of a blue cake with sprinkles on it and Ash opted for a mini-cheesecake. A girl after her parents heart! Then they each got to choose what we did as a family that night.




























The next 1/2 birthday that we're REALLY looking forward to is Tink's, because it means the blessed utopia called NURSERY is introduced. Not that we're wishing the next 2 months away, but church is sure feeling like a marathon. Considering I've been doing it for a couple of months alone, and have 4-5 more weeks with a hubby that will continue being on rotations that keep him at the hospital on Sunday, I will happily enjoy Sunday School and Relief Society without a toddler on my lap or quiet time in the halls!

Degrees of blogging

Ever heard of the 6 degrees of Kevin Bacon? Where every actor can be linked through their career to Kevin Bacon? I'm convinced that this phenomenon also applies to the blogging world. Take any random persons blog and after clicking on a few links of family and friends, you'll find someone that you've known in your past.

The bad thing about this is it feels very stalk-ish. Though I feel vulnerable doing this, I'm exposing some of my blogging faux pas anyway! For example, I've happened to click on someone I know off of my sisters blog, which lead to someone else (I didn't know very well, I'm embarrassed to say) and found my back door neighbor's blog. Seriously.

Do I make a comment and admit how I found them? Check in once in a while and not say anything? Anonymously complain that their weeds are creeping to our side of the fence:) Joking.

Once I happened to comment to my husband about a really funny post I'd read that day. He asked me who it was and I had to admit that it was a kid I went to high school with that was a few years younger than me. I got that stare--the "What are you really doing at 6:30 in the morning when I think you're just checking your emails" look. Or, it could have been the "Wow, I married a stalker" look. Which ever look it was, I was a little embarrassed. In fact one of my resolutions this year is to limit my time on the computer and only be on with specific purposes, but I digress...

But, I've had people that I really enjoy catching up with that have posted a comment to let me know they ran across my blog randomly and I'm so glad they did! So, I guess I should just swallow my pride and not be ashamed of my blogging habits. Blogs are like getting Christmas Cards, not once a year, but every day. Plus, I love the real day-to-day happenings that make life so interesting that don't always make the annual letter. So, stalk away, I say!

Ty-Guy--True blue, through and through

One of the down-sides to residency is that Casey's schedule isn't always predictable. So when he scored some great tickets to a Jazz game, he asked Ty if he'd like to have a night out with him, to which Ty replied "Oh, sure!" Well, as luck would have it, he got more work piled on him than he could handle in time to take Ty to the game.

One of the up-sides to living in Utah is such great family that helps create great memories and pitches in when they are needed. This was a call to duty that Grandpa I. took by the horns. Ty was really excited to find out that he'd get a special night with Grandpa! He called to make sure that Ty came hungry, picked him up and away they went to the game.

He came home so excited and really had the best time. He made an odd comment about how he told Grandpa that he didn't like Good Things Utah. Okay, a little random, but I think most males his age would concur with this observation.

Come to find out that while he was at the game, he kept talking about the BYU basketball game that Case had taken him to earlier in the month. Finally Grandpa, a crimson club member, asked Ty if he ever thought that maybe he'd root for the University of Utah because that's Grandpa's favorite team, to which this 4-year-old replied, "Mmm, probably not."

Thanks, dad for a great memory for our boy. I don't care what team he's cheering for when he has someone as great as you to look up to.